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Intimate partner betrayal cuts deep.
You haven't just faced the shock of discovering your partner's sexual deception, you've probably been confronted with impossible decisions and had to face a painful, worrying reality you never imagined could be true.
If you hoped you’d be feeling better by now – stronger, more accepting, more optimistic – yet instead it feels like your world is still falling apart, I wrote this guide to help you get unstuck, alleviate the overwhelm and shine a light on your path:
Inside, you'll:
Explore 12 common recovery blocks that could be hindering your healing after discovering the devastating reality of your partner's sexual betrayal.
Receive 12 helpful reflection prompts to help you gain perspective on your unique situation and restore your sense of clarity so that you can begin to make the decisions for your relationship that feel right for you.
Feel supported, validated and less isolated as you realise that everything you're going through is real, recognised and understood as part of a trauma response, not a crazy over-reaction.
Receive an insightful, compassionate tool to help you consider your next steps and finally glimpse some light at the end of the dark tunnel of sexual betrayal trauma.
Rhian Kivits is a Relate-qualified sex and relationship therapist, educator and betrayal trauma expert who advocates for conscious, connected relationships rooted in safety and integrity.
She is the founder of The Betrayal Prescription, a unique healing solution for intimate partner betrayal — serial cheating, pornography misuse, sex addiction and other forms of problematic sexual behaviour.
Committed to a partner-centric approach, Rhian draws upon a unique mind-body methodology that meets the gold standard for treating the complex PTSD symptoms, attachment wounds and relationship difficulties resulting from betrayal trauma.
She is a compassionate, guiding light for those navigating the aftermath of betrayal, helping them heal, restore their self-esteem, rebuild trust and align with healthier future relationships.
Rhian’s expert insights on sex and relationships are regularly featured in the media, with credits including The Telegraph, The Daily Mail, Psychologies, Cosmopolitan and Closer Magazine.
She lives by the sea in Cornwall with her human and feline family, although in the winter months you’ll often find her soaking up the Mediterranean sun.
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